Sautee onions, garlic, add to bowl with meat and mix thoroughly
Add 1 tbsp of olive oil to pan and cook cabbage until translucent
Layer cabbage, meat and 1 cup mozzarella cheese in large baking dish repeating until out of these ingredients sprinkling red pepper flake after each meat layer
Sauce Mixture
Whisk eggs
Stir in milk
Add all dry ingredients and mix well
Add soften cream cheese and whisk together well with fork
Pour sauce mixture over top and cover with remaining cheese